When Your Kids’ Choices Don’t Match Yours: How to Parent With Love, Not Control
I experienced a rude awakening recently, when I finally realised that I believed my children must share my values. I felt justified in demanding that they share my desire to rid our home and our bodies of harmful chemicals and toxic substances. I felt that because I value organic food, healthy eating, and a toxin-free lifestyle, that my children should too.
Why Self Love isn’t Selfish
I am often asked ‘Isn’t Self Love Selfish?’ And I get it; when you are used to putting yourself last, self love can feel selfish. It’s the opposite of what you have been taught. It feels uncomfortable to take up space because you’ve learnt that your needs don’t matter or aren’t a priority.
How I met my Inner Child
I first met my inner child five years ago, during a healing session with a psychic. She transported me to a time when I was about 3 years old, feeling very afraid and trying to hide in my mother’s skirts so as not to get in trouble. As a parent myself that image really touched me…
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